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We've been the therapists, the cheerleaders, the fixers, and the women who believed that if we just loved hard enough, everything would work out. Spoiler alert: it didn't. But that messy journey taught us everything we needed to know about what real love actually looks like - and what it definitely doesn't.

We're two women who've been in the trenches of codependent love and lived to tell the truth about it. We've both bled out in the arena of loving too much, giving too much, and somehow always ending up with men who couldn't match our energy or commitment.

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We write about the shit nobody wants to admit out loud. The patterns that keep us stuck, the childhood wounds that make us magnets for emotionally unavailable people, and the brutal but beautiful work of choosing ourselves first.

We're not therapists or life coaches - we're just women who figured some things out the hard way and have some things to say. This stuff is raw, real, and sometimes uncomfortable because healing isn't pretty. But it's honest, and honestly?

That's exactly what we need right now.

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